a union of two

“I guess the only way to stop divorce is to stop marriage.” Will Rogers

“A wedding is just like a funeral except that you get to smell your own flowers.” Grace Hansen

today is sunday, and im supposed to complete a wedding slide presentation for a fren by WEDNESDAY! (fyi, just handed over to me today coz he 'tot he knows how to do it' but ended up a 'very messy' one, he said. so 'dump' the task to me! so last minute!)

and, it is NOT helping wen all the quotations about Love/Marriage/Wedding that i found, were all like the above! LOL! no, not all... but the first few pages of the results - they were all sooooo NEGATIVE!! my gudiness! how can tis be! terrifying!

til i found this one - of all others, atlis - one that i tink is more 'ant-attracting'! hehe...

“I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance, a church filled with family and friends...
I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for, he said one that would make me his wife.” author unknown

damn nice huh? (die-ed me for a while there! LOL. jk!) okie.. back to my 'project'! PRAY PRAY it will turn out superb-ly!
*im missing my (usual) morphing time (now)! =( haha...

Before the song is over...

This poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a New York Hospital. It was sent by a medical doctor.

SLOW DANCE

Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?

You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,"Hi"

You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.

Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music

Before the song is over.

kyra & maia

presenting... ka-che, kyra aerin & mui-mui, maia faith...

(actually, i feel bad IF i were to post only maia's pix, so while waiting for my hair to dry AGAIN, hehe... i photoshopped this out lor. to be fair & sq! hehe...*abee's actually looking down on her own pix on the laptop cuz pix was taken with the webcam). eil, mana satu u want? hehehe... LOL.

before n after

js came back from shel's hse for deepavali (*waiting for pixes still! hehe).

then got an unknown number calling. hahaha... LOL. tok tok tok - herh? who u looking for? herh? wrong number la... *tuuuuutttttt* call ended! then, the same number called again, "r u jess bpl?" (in mandarin la) turned out, hahahah! another johor fren... informing me of his big day! LOL... paisehnyeeee me! hung up ppl's call! LOL. but had a great chat with him... 8 december. perak GOK! i cannot go!!! apalah! but anwy, congratulations, kuan ye & wifey.

ahhh, so happen to get this fwded mail. hehe... just a joke, ofcos! hehe...

Marriage Life Before and After!!

Before marriage.
Darling here.. darling there...
After marriage.
Baling here... baling there..

Before marriage.
I die for you. . .
After marriage.
'You die, up to you. '
Lagi lama married.
You die I help you!

Before marriage.
You go anywhere. . I follow you.
After marriage. .
You go anywhere. . up to you .
Lagi lama married.
You go anywhere better get lost!!

Before wedding
you are my heart, you are my love
After wedding
you get on my nerves.

Before wedding
'you are sweet and kind just like Cinderella'
After wedding
'you are worse than godzila'

Before wedding
Roses are red, violets are blue. Like it or not, I'm stuck with you
After wedding
Roses are dead, I am blue. You get on my head, I will sue you

Before wedding
Every makan he brings you to Shangri-La
After wedding
You want to go, he says you wait-la

Before wedding
She looks like Anita Sarawak
After wedding
Don't know whether katak or biawak.

hehe... JUST KIDDING! may it be "you are my heart, you are my love" forever for all u who are (getting) married!

of hopes and dreams

im sooooo smitten by this page in the prudential organizer for 2008. haha.. no, im not advertising for em. again i say, im a great eastener. hehe... but i just love this page. the color, the vibrancy and the copy - 'of hopes and dreams'. attractive in its own way, meaningful too.

novemberie daytees

today is 7 november.

tomolo is deepavali. happie deepavali & happy hols, ppl!

11, 12 & 13 nov, very very goodie goodie frens birthdayS (all over malaysia! LOL.. exxagerating again. from kuching, to melaka to kl to perak).

16 a fren wedding (not here).

21 another fren wedding (here).

24 mommie and porkie come back from kl (finally!)

and actually, wad i wanna say is, hehe...
30 nov - goin palm beach resort overnite with my own family, my khaima & family, plus another cute-fun aunt & family from sibu! and my main point here is not those, its actually - IF THE WEATHER IS SUPERB, no rain, WE WILL BE GETTING A SPEEDBOAT TO TALANG-TALANG (or sumwhere nearby) AND SNORKEL. AND WE WILL BE KAYAKING. AND WE WILL BE TAKING LOTSA CUZZIES-PIXES! hahaha... i am soooo looking forward to this day! hahaha... lets just pray tat the weather will be fine... fine... for tat fri n sat!

and tat also means, jeng jeng!!!!!
i gota apply for leaves gok!! jeng jeng!! wish me luck for tat too!

and, in the meantime... i have a lil 'threesome' gathering with my 2 very close galpals. date to be decided. hahaha! and i still have a BELATED bday pressie TO CLAIM! hahaha... (if that person's WU-SIM enuf to stil rmbr!) claim worrr! but nah, too belated to be claimed liau. dun worry.

and! a fren finds my blog HILARIOUS at times. i am wondering, is tat supposed to be good or no good? haha... nvm, i'll take it as good-hilarious - coz im pretty sure the way i write is the way i talk. so, it cannot be sooooo bad kua? hehehehe... shhhhhh, DUN TELL ME if its bad! haha. dun spoil my day! LOL... but if its good-hilarious, can tell me. hahahahaha... NO PROBLEMMO! hahahaha...

oki. gota go sleep liau in order not to get any crazier liau. nites ppl!

the power of CRYING!

oki. got tis from my frenster buletin. hehe... somehow, it reminded me of someone i know. someone who has always appeared such a tough-kukie. haha! but nah, i dun tink she has ever cried in front of any guy before. anwy, im tryin to see how true it is myself - these sentences, i mean. so, lets read togeder-geder la. hahaha... LOL.

If a girl cries in front of you, it means that she couldn't take it anymore...
i tink it applies not only to the girls. i tink wen anyone breaks down n cry, it really is unbearable liau.

If you take her hand, she would stay with you for the rest of your life; if you let her go, she couldn't go back to being herself anymore...
disagree totally!

A girl wont cry easily, Except in front of the person who she love the most, she becomes weak.. A girl wont cry easily, only when she loves you the most, she put down her ego.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you please hold her hands firmly, she's the one who would stay with you for the rest of your life.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please dont give her up, maybe bcoz of your decision, you ruin her life.
to the point of giving up, i tink its gona be either his or her life is gona be ruined. no?

When she cry rite in front of you, when she cry bcoz of you, Look into her eyes, Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's feeling?

Think....

Which other girl have cried with pure sincerity, Infront of you, And bcoz of you?

She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wants sympathy or pity,
She cries, Because crying silently is no longer possible,
the pain, hurt, n agony have become too big a burden to be kept inside...

If a girl cry her heart out 2 you,
And all because of you,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.

Coz one day....
It may be too late for regrets,
It may be too late to say "im sorry".

hmmm, malas wanna say antg liau. more weird ones than true ones. but all i can say is - crying is DAHSYAT! hahaha... nah, lets not talk abt it tonite. im in a jolly good mood today, i duno why! haha.. . so, skip to the next post! hehe...

fun at the peak!!!

guitar lesson

i drove! i drove! haha... as if sooo big deal lidat! LOL. but i drove all the way downtown on saturday, tis time with the big babe! hahahahaha... but kenak honked once la, odw home sumwher in subang, i tink! hahaha... apala! paiseh si me. haha...

im declaring bankruptcy liau!! =( *sob *sob... haha. anwy, goin back home liau tomolo (tuesday) =( back to work gok liau, and to my typical daily life liau.

oh! guess wad? hehe... for the sake of PLAYING guitar, PLAY as in MAIN-MAIN... i'll show u MY SACRIFICE! hahahaha... LOL. *so BIG deal for me errrr...

notice my fingernails BEFORE the guitar session ('tutor-ed' by porkie wen both of us cudnt sleep last nite. hehe... out of wuliau-ness)

my 'SACRIFICE'! hahahaha... i call em the stupid looking fingers (AFTER the nail cut!) rili looked so suku fingers.

the notes - most basic ones. walao eh, not easy ler. press the strings til the fingers so sore. THO ONLY FOR A WHILE! fingers cannot stand it anymore - stinging sore! but its FUN! hahaha...

okie, be back with more pixes from genting wen im home! very tired. needa sleep liau! haha... hav a nice week! =D

i am broke! i am exhausted! i am goin back to work! i am...
DEVASTATED!!!!

=P lol... c ya people!!

siokkkkk, man!

ah, its already 1250am on 2 nov. how time flies (wen ur holidayin...)

anyway, yes ppl - i've joined the 'club'! haha... u just dun know how many msgs i got that welcomed me to 'the club'! hahah... so many tat it surprised me alot! weird! haha... (wad on earth is with 'the club' thingie? i rili wonder... haha)

oki! #1: toking about car, I DROVE BIG CAR! hahah... big as in, CRV la. jiefu's CRV. hahaha. ok ok, mite not be sooo big deal for any of u, bt so far, this is the BIGGEST car i've driven =D siokkkk nyeerrrr... but has yet to bring this big babe out to kl. the furthest i go is only like, to the mamak at the nearby kedai. haha... ermmm, like 7 mins' away nia? hahaha... LOL. and then, tat day, not long aftr leaving klia, saw the very new Lancer baby. tsk tsk tsk. black one thim! ;-)

#2: BIG apple! the super yummie donuts in town! ahhhhh.... heaven! ok, tapaoed these home. nvr rili tried all the flavors wen we ate there, but as can be seen, ICEBERG is, to me, THE NICEST OF ALL! (nehh, the white ones - tats y 6 bijik! haha...) nice nice! someone, start a 'small BANANA' donut cafe in kuching liau. hahaha...

oki. end of my siok stories. those who kept saying tat i owes write too long a post - i THINK i've 'repented'! hehe... dun u tink so? haahhaa. gota sleep liau. dead tired i am! gudnite!